Escaping Abusive Relationships

How patronising and condescending this is to men! There are some devious women out there who will thrive on this information and probably manipulate situations to instigate what could be tantamount to unreasonable behaviour. What about the unreasonable behaviour of a woman who wants a man to change to the way she wants him. A woman who has her husband come so far down her list of priorities, he can't help but feel aggrieved and irritable. When a husband comes after the youngest son 25, a twin sister, the eldest son 35, the dog and another sister or two, is that not a form of abuse. Then there are the times when she attacks and hits you and you don't hit back but eventually, she hits you once to often and you hit back but she doesn't leave or do anything then. After getting you to buy more things for her, the house, the garden, the conservatory, to pay for a long weekend away at a wedding, on the way she is discussing buying a caravan, on the way back she's discussing the caravan and a log burner. You drive for 3 hours plus, then ask for a cuppa and she accuses you of demanding. Then goes out of her way to cause an argument over it for nothing which, you try to avoid but she hounds you, hoping she gets what she wants but you resist and you don't give her what she wants so, 4 days later she puts her rings on your bedside cabinet, the next day she tells you it is over and wants £10,000 and the house to be sold. Is this not also abusing the man, with disrespect? Relationships are a two way street and break down just as much through a women being controlling as men so, do me a favour please cut the bias and stop encouraging women to seek unreasonable behaviour as a way of getting out of a marriage because to me you are not only inciting, invoking but you are endorsing the practice! Some women, like mine may even have found another man and just want out and this does nothing but encourage them to get out! The thing that hurt the most, I was up front from day one about my anxiety and depressive state, she was in a relationship when she met me, as she was when she met him, no doubt as she was when she met him also because she couldn't wait, to chat to another guy and tell him she was getting a divorce because his words to me when I found his number were, ""she divorcing you anyway d-head"! Now ponder on that one, a couple of times we had a quarrel, I felt like I had blown it, my anxiety and depression controlled me and you know what that does. I fell out with her youngest (25), that was the turning point I took an OD but luckily I pulled through. We went to see our GP had a chat, I made a promise I would never take another OD and would be stronger in future, she promised to help but reneged because she said I demanded a cuppa. When she said it was over, I stayed strong for her, I wrote txt messages and emails telling her how I felt because my I was battling my anxiety. I played into her hands because after her reading the likes of w

Your website is a bit bias towards women being victim!! My brothers wife is an alcoholic and abusive to him. Has caused him to have heart attack and is always drunk, he does everything. She is abusive infrastructure ntbof children? What is resolution. It's a derby dangerous situation and children and brother are affected (father/husband) social service xesxate useless. What is resolution?